Dee Norton Child Advocacy Center, the region’s leading resource to prevent abuse, protect children, and heal families, is sharing Halloween tips for parents and caregivers to help keep the night full of treats, not tricks.
Halloween is one of the most magical nights of the year for children: a chance to dress up, have fun with friends, and enjoy a little extra candy. For parents, it’s also an opportunity talk with kids about safety in a way that empowers them, builds trust, and keeps the focus on fun.
“Safety doesn’t have to be scary,” said Beverly Hutchison, Executive Director of the Dee Norton Child Advocacy Center. “Halloween is the perfect time for parents and caregivers to have age-appropriate conversations with their children about being aware of their surroundings, staying with friends, and knowing what to do if they ever feel uncomfortable or unsafe. The goal is to make sure every child has a fun, safe, and memorable night.”
Dee Norton recommends the following conversation starters to keep children safe while putting a parent’s mind at ease this Halloween.
For younger children (under 12):
- “A safe adult will never ask you to go somewhere without telling me first.”
- “Let’s stick to streets we know and houses that have lights on and are decorated.”
- “You’ll never be in trouble for saying ‘no’ if something feels spooky or uncomfortable.”
- “Let’s wear glow sticks so we can see each other easily!”
For teens:
- “Keep your phone charged. It’s not about checking in constantly; it’s about knowing you’re safe.”
- “Let’s plan a trick-or-treat route together. Remember, if your change plans, let me know.”
- “A safe friend will never pressure you to do something that feels wrong to you, even if they say it’s just for fun.”
- “If you ever feel unsure or unsafe, call or text me right away. You’ll never be in trouble for asking for help.”
- “Stay with people you trust, and don’t go off alone.”
- “Never go into a stranger’s home or car.”
For all ages:
- “Remember, the goal tonight is to have fun, not to rush. Take your time, be alert, and enjoy the night.”
- “Let’s look at your candy together. When in doubt, toss it out.”
- “You can always come to me if something doesn’t feel right.”